“Boundaries” has been a buzz word for decades, but we haven’t talked enough about what I believe is the most important step in setting boundaries . . . the right place to START.

For the last few decades, *boundaries* have been a real hot topic, especially in Christian circles. What’s wild to me is how many “Christian Influencers,” pastors and teachers are showing up on social media and posting unbiblical advice around boundaries. It’s shocking!

As followers of Christ, filled with His Spirit, when we post or speak publicly, we MUST fact check ourselves. This means running everything we say and post through the filter of the Word of God. This is our Standard, and if we’re teaching anything that departs from this Standard, we’re edging into Ezekiel 13 territory (go read it when you have a minute and the fear of the Lord will set you straight, promise!).

Jesus said in John 5 that He only did and said what He saw the Father doing and saying. And He constantly addressed things with straight-up Scripture. Consider His showdown with the devil in the desert, yeah? This Standard is now our Standard, in Christ Jesus. So, when it comes to talking about and teaching around boundaries, it’s no different for us.

Popular psychology may highlight the setting of boundaries externally between us and others as the place to start, but I see something different when I read the Bible. It’s clear, over and over in Scripture, God calls us to set boundaries within ourselves first.

Setting boundaries within ourselves before we start to build and set them externally will change the nature of how we set boundaries with others, and will make those boundaries we do set more effective and less emotionally and mentally overwhelming as we hold and maintain them. Who doesn’t want more of that?!

On this episode of the Positioned to Prosper podcast, I’m going to show you the 3 different types of personal boundaries you need to set within yourself first that will enable you to set more effective, less overwhelming boundaries with others over the long haul. Do you know you need this clarification around Biblical boundaries? Are you ready to reduce the friction in boundary setting with others? Grab your Bible, your journal and a pen, and . . . Let’s Go!

A PRACTICAL WAY TO START SETTING THOSE PERSONAL BOUNDARIES Are you ready to take dominion over your daily cadence as a way to start setting those personal boundaries in the practical? Sis, a block schedule that sets your general daily flow is a wonderful way to get into the rhythm. Grab this free resource I created to help you! You can access the Block Schedule Template by heading to ericapyle.com/DailyFlow. You’ll receive a link to a worksheet that’ll help you set up your ideal week within a block schedule layout, alongside supportive scripture to encourage you. So good, right? Go grab the link to this powerful resource here.

SCRIPTURE REFERENCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

John 5:19-20
So Jesus said to them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of his own accord, but only what he sees the Father doing. For whatever the Father does, that the Son does likewise. For the Father loves the Son and shows him all that he himself is doing. And greater works than these will he show him, so that you may marvel.

Genesis 3:1-6
Now the serpent was more crafty than any other beast of the field that the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God actually say, ‘You shall not eat of any tree in the garden’?” And the woman said to the serpent, “We may eat of the fruit of the trees in the garden, but God said, ‘You shall not eat of the fruit of the tree that is in the midst of the garden, neither shall you touch it, lest you die.’” But the serpent said to the woman, “You will not surely die. For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was to be desired to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate, and she also gave some to her husband who was with her, and he ate.

2 Timothy 1:7
For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.

Isaiah 50:7
But the Lord God helps me; therefore I have not been disgraced; therefore I have set my face like a flint, and I know that I shall not be put to shame.

Philippians 4:13
I can do all things through him who strengthens me.

James 5:12
But above all, my brothers, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation.

Isaiah 7:9 NKJV
If you will not believe, surely you shall not be established.

LINKS TO RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

A PRACTICAL WAY TO START SETTING THOSE PERSONAL BOUNDARIES Are you ready to take dominion over your daily cadence as a way to start setting those personal boundaries in the practical? Sis, a block schedule that sets your general daily flow is a wonderful way to get into the rhythm easily! Grab this free resource I created to help you! You can access the Block Schedule Template by heading to ericapyle.com/DailyFlow. You’ll receive a link to a worksheet that’ll help you set up your ideal week within a block schedule layout, alongside supportive scripture to encourage you. So good, right? Go grab the link to this powerful resource here.

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Erica co-leads a local church alongside her husband, Doug, in Tampa, Florida called REVIVE Church of Tampa. You can visit the church’s website for more information about who we are, what we believe and how we show up as the Church in the heart of West Tampa and beyond.

REVIVE Church of Tampa

REVIVE Church of Tampa streams service live on Sunday mornings at 11am ET. You can find that livestream on our church Facebook page:

Live Service – Sundays at 11am ET

If you’re interested in joining the online campus of REVIVE Church of Tampa, you are welcome to join our community group on Facebook where we offer weekly discussion around the Friday and Sunday messages as well as discipleship Zoom groups and the opportunity to host others in your home as you stream services. You can find us here:

The ROCC: REVIVE Online Campus Community

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Welcome to the Positioned to Prosper Podcast with Erica Pyle, where we dive deep into Biblical mindsets, strategies, and inspiration to help you thrive in every area of your life. Whether it’s faith, health, relationships, finances, business, or ministry, Erica’s here to equip you with the tools you need to get unstuck, overcome overwhelm, and avoid burnout as you pursue your purpose with intention.

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